Hello, my name is Rob!
I am not a formal councellor, but I am an expert from the experience!
Of breaking up with my soul mate...
My Partner and I have been on and of for a whopping 9 years, stuck in that make up and break up cycle.
The last time we broke up was the longest time, and the impact it had was like climbing up a huge bluff, and falling all the way back down again...
I have experienced lots of good hard physical pain in my life, but nothing can compare to the pain from having a broken HEART!

Getting My Wife Back, Was! "Breaking The Cycle"
I was sick and tired of making up and breaking up!
I was at a point in my life, when all I could think of was "I want my wife back" and I do have to say it was one of the worst emotional times I had ever experienced...
There were times where I couldn't get myself to do anything!
Life just sucked, and everything I wanted was gone and lost forever. It seemed there was no way I was getting my wife back..
After a serious breakup with somebody you love, and thought you could have spent the rest of your life with!
Is the most ALONE feeling EVER...
Deppresion did indeed have a strong hold on me for a long time!
However it DID give me cause to do a MAJOR reflection of why my life had turned out this way...
It is what I had realized within my reflections! That does have the most significance in ALL loving breakups!!!
That is if you are mature, and brave enough to face this reality for what it is...
In my memory, my love problems started way back when I was just 2 years old...
I can remember sitting on my daddy's knee (crying) and him telling me that I won't be seeing him for a long time.
He was moving away...
My MOM and DAD had broken up...
And then...
DIVORCED!
I hardly saw my father after that, and life with my mother was! Well lets just say, that it was a life with lot's of difficulties, and confusion...
I could rattle off a lot here, but I just want to make my point clear!
About the,
"Breaking The Cycle" Bit..
I ended up with two other "step fathers" to contend with. All my life I was witness to fighting and arguing!!!
I Saw Breaking Up, And I saw 5 minute make ups. I seen it with my parents, I see it with my sisters and brothers... I see it with my cousins, and uncle's and aunty's. Not to mention my friends, and YOU! You are here because of it?
And to have a quick look into the past of My soul mates, influence of having a "loving" relationship! Her parents did stay together, but there was lots of the arguing and alcohol! With perhaps a case of EXTREME confusion!!!
THE MORAL of the story concludes, with the fact that neither of us grew up with a POSITIVE example of being "INLOVE"!!!
We both became adults who were Unhappy, and turned to drugs and alcohol, to make life bearable!
Our relationship was like a rocky rollercoaster ride, with smooth "patches" and we get of after a crash! Let our wounds get burried, and look at eachother, and get magnafied straight back in...
We so much loved eachother, and NEW 100% that we were meant to be! But as we got older, and the way we managed our relationship!
The rollercoaster ride gets harder and harder...
And with all that shaking over the rocky rollercoaster (and just leaving the rocks in the way, from making the rail smoother), eventually it all just came, CRASHING DOWN!...
At that time! We HAD two Very beautiful girls:) INVOLVED in our HEARTACHE'S!...
And the thing that has had the most IMPACT on me! Was that, what WE were DOING!
Was SHOWING our girls! A different! But Similar CYCLE of relationship blues...
Looking back on it now! I can say, that all I was doing was
"Living in a life" and just doing stuff that "I KNOW" from what I had LEARNED!!!
For me to get my wife and girls back! We would have to be HAPPY! No more excuses to make things seem alright. There is more to life! If you WANT to have more...
I have the ability to clear the rocks off the rollercoaster! All I needed was to figure out how I could do it.
We all have the ability to create our own rollercoaster, as we can all LEARN to make it as smooth as we like...
Activate Your own WILL to Make the positive Changes To Make It better for YOU...
To Get Your Wife Back To Make It Last
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